Since rising to fame, Jennifer Lopez’s love life has drawn considerable attention. She has been married four times and engaged six times.
Most recently, Lopez was married to her longtime love, Ben Affleck, for two years before she filed for divorce in August 2024. Her longest marriage was with Marc Anthony, lasting from 2004 to 2014. During that time, they welcomed twins, Max and Emme.
Jennifer Lopez’s ex husband accuses her of cheating saying she ‘couldn’t keep it in her pants’
Jennifer Lopez recently shared some startling insights about her romantic experiences on SiriusXM’s The Howard Stern Show. When Howard Stern inquired whether she had ever felt truly loved, Lopez took a moment before responding, “No.”
The star claimed on The Howard Stern Show that her former partners were “just not capable” of loving her.
She added, “What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable. It’s that they’re not capable. They don’t have it in them.”
Following this revelation, her ex-husband Ojani Noa publicly criticized her on social media, accusing her of infidelity and saying she prioritized her career over their marriage.
Ojani was Jennifer’s first husband, marrying in February 1997 after her split with David Cruz. Their marriage lasted until January 1998, leading to legal disputes over his memoir and private footage in a documentary.
Noa wrote in a post on Instagram: “Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. The problem is us. Not me. The problem is you. You’re the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants.
“You have been ‘loved’ a few times. You have been married 4 times. And have had countless relationships in between. You’ve had good relationships… Me for example.”
Noa, a former waiter, insisted he “was in love” with the “Atlas” actress and claimed he moved out of state to support, leaving his family and job in order to protect and care for her.
He wrote: “I’m an amazing, loving person, great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never miss behave, never cheated on you,” Noa said. “I was good to you. I’m too good of a [man] for you.”
“But you. You chose fame and fortune moving apart of our relationship,” he wrote about Lopez. “You decided to lie, to cheat on me and even though I stayed. I even tried to keep the marriage going and alive. You begged me to keep the marriage intact to avoid bad press caring more about you.”
Noa did not provide details about the cheating allegations but accused the “Let’s Get Loud” singer of prioritizing her career and stardom over him.
He said: “You wanted to continue cheating and lying. I couldn’t stay anymore and deal with the constantly lying,” Noa said. “That’s why I left you. That’s why I divorced you.”
Noa added: “Tell the truth for once. Let people know you are the problem. You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself.”
Lopez has been married on four occasions but explained to Stern that none of her relationships have felt “doomed from the beginning”.
She said, “I live my life very out loud, even though I was in the public eye, and I wanted to share my life with someone.
“I want someone to be there when I’m having big important moments on the red carpet. I want someone to be there when I’m doing whatever, or when we’re going to the store.”